In keeping with my goals to help the bondage community grow and learn, I will be doing bondage demonstrations at San Diego Pride this year. Last year was my first time doing such a thing and I really enjoyed it. This year, however, it will be bigger and better. I will have two boys helping me with my demonstrations, rubberfet33 and bondagesub82. Both of these boys will be in various bondage and gear at San Diego Pride. The event will be on July 13-14 in Balboa Park. The Leather Realm is the BDSM area, open to adults over age 18 and is at the south end of the festival area. I encourage all to come on out in gear and get involved. Look for me at the event from 1430-1930 on Saturday, July 13 and from 1400-1900 on Sunday, July 14. It’s going to be fun! More details will follow as the event gets closer.
Category: General
Bondage Tip #3 – Responsibilities of the Top
When you have a sub in bondage, from the point you put the first restraint on to the removal of the last restraint, you are responsible for that person. It is a part of the trust that the sub puts in you. Make sure they are kept safe from injury when they cannot see or control their own actions. When I walk a bound boy down stairs, I will walk in front of them to ensure they will not fall. A more public setting, such as a bar, is a place you need to be extra careful. I’ve had boys in very heavy bondage in bars and events before. When they are on leash, sometimes others will try to grab the leash or their collars. It will happen, especially with more drunks around. While I am enjoying being there, my primary concern is with my boys.
Keep them safe and they will keep you happy!
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Cage time for the puppy
Alphapupphoenix wanted some time alone bound and caged. Before his arrival, he placed himself into his “boy trainer 2.0” chastity device from Mr. S Leather. So, this pup got what he wanted. He was placed into fist mitts, bondage socks, and a muzzle. Everything was chained and locked together to ensure he heard and felt every movement of those chains. Once the gear was on, it was time for him to be locked into the cage. I put blankets and a couple pillows in there for “comfort”. They were still folded when I put them in. When the pup was locked in, he wanted me to help cover him. I simply told him no, that he would have to do it himself. I feel it is important for a bound sub to be able to adapt to the bondage they are in. It is a good learning experience for them. I left him to stir for a couple hours, which made him quite happy. Not all bondage has to be intense play. Sometimes it can be a fun way to relax and zone out for a while.
