Communication is very important in any bondage session. Proper communication can enhance the trust in a BDSM session and will allow the boy to enjoy the session more. How it is done should be worked out before a session begins. Any form of communication chosen should be clear and easily interpreted. Verbal communication should never be in the form of “Yeah” or “Sure”. “Yes SIR” and “No SIR” are much clearer and a more acceptable form of communication. For times when a boy is muzzled or gagged, they can of course no longer speak clearly. My preference is the “three loud grunts” method to communicate. When something is going wrong, they give me three loud grunts. Once I have heard them, I will then figure out what the problem is and correct it. Having them nod their head is a poor method as it is unclear. They may not be able to move their head in their bonds as well.
Safewords
Safewords are also a good idea, though I tend not to use them. A safeword is used as a STOP to a session. I feel that if a safeword is used, I’ve pushed the boy too far and too fast. In that case, I have done something wrong. A safeword should never be ignored regardless, as trust will break down quickly if they are. Make sure the boy picks his own word. He is likely to forget it if you picked it for him. There are other ways to communicate, but remember that whatever is chosen must be agreed upon before things start.
Locking gear is a favorite of mine and is quite apparent with a quick view of this blog. When you have a lot of locking gear, having things keyed alike is a good idea. It makes it easier to unlock any item in the event of an emergency. It also reduces the problems you might encounter when locking the gear in the first place. It may cost a little more to do, but you'll reap the benefits with easier play. I've found the cost varies from $3.99 to over $6.00 per lock. It all depends on what you're looking for. It is also best to keep at least two or three separate key rings stashed away in case you lose one set. Nothing is as big a turnoff as having to use bolt cutters or a hacksaw to get a boy out of his bonds. Well, unless he is in riveted shackles.
A good friend, LALthrBondage came down for a couple days to play. I always have a great time with him. I tie him up, he ties me up, good fun had by all. This time, he brought along his neoprene sleepsack and Posey straitjacket, as well as some other items. Not long after his arrival, it was time for him to get tied. I used his straitjacket, hood, and some leather bondage belts. The result was quite restrictive and enjoyable.
Hooded and Gagged. His head is also chained at the top to the futon.Chains locked to the wall. They always make a nice “backup” in case the boy gets loose.Legs spread, arms bound and strapped, head chained down. He has no choice but to accept his bonds.
After playing with him while he was bound, using my vibrator and hands, it was my turn. He tied me in his straitjacket while I was in my new wetsuit. I was placed in a leather posture collar, blindfold, and gagged. It was a wonderfully tight bondage setup. With my arms tied down and my ankles bound to the futon, I wasn’t going anywhere. That is just the sort of bondage I enjoy.
Straitjackets and wetsuits… a good mix.Straitjacketed and in my wetsuit.Ankles bound together and tied to the futon.Extra straps were added to keep me from moving around so much.
The next day, after purchasing a motocross jersey, I wanted to get tied in my new gear. I put on my jersey, motocross pants and boots. I was then placed into my Clejuso Heavyweight cuffs and tied to my bondage chair. Additional straps and rope were added to ensure I couldn’t get up from the chair. A large gag was shoved in my mouth, after which I was hooded. It felt great! Getting tied like that gives me so many ideas for more bondage. I was teased and edged with my vibrator, all while my nipples were being played with. Fun times!
I can’t move much at all with these straps. There is a smile under there.Cuffed, hooded, gagged, and loving it!
After I was released, it was time for one more bondage session for LALthrBondage. I wanted to get some use out of the sleepsack he brought along. So, he was put into the sleepsack, gagged, and hooded. I used additional straps to cinch him down to the futon from his head to his feet. Movement was very restricted which made the whole thing fun to watch. After a period of leaving him to squirm and some vibrator play, I took the hood and gag out. I quickly replaced them with a gas mask hood he brought with him. I then attached a hose to the gas mask and ran the other end into the sleepsack at his crotch. It doesn’t restrict his breathing, but it does control what he breathes. After some more teasing, I added the masturbation attachment to my vibrator and worked his cock until he shot a big load. I always enjoy hearing a bound sub moaning into a gas mask while cumming.
Strapped down from head to toe.Gas mask added with the hose going to his crotch.
